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High school football games were quite the event every Friday night in our hometown. My high school didn’t reach 5A until my senior year. But even before that, we had a pretty snazzy 4A team. I remember back to my sophomore year in high school. My parents and I went to every single game. We weren’t going for anyone in particular; no relatives on the team or anything. We were simply a part of the community and it was a way to show our support and involvement. As much fun as we had, I’ll never forget something that use to spark a bit of irritation in me. It was when the game would get down to the wire so to speak. We’d either need a field goal, or some game saving play. One of the players would start waving his arms to get the crowd to cheer. I wanted to say, “Hey, that’s the cheerleaders’ job!” Nevertheless, we’d all, already standing to our feet start to scream even louder declaring our praise and reassurance.

It’s the same kind of feeling I get when I watch award shows and the recipient makes the comment, “I’d like to thank my fans.” It just sounds so boisterous and somewhat conceited. It’s for that very reason that I’ve never really liked the “follow” link on this blog. Who wants to be a follower anyway? Didn’t we all get the message about being independent and having leadership qualities?

Regardless of the lingo, we know that these are all ways for us to express our support, to give our approval, to provide our encouragement. It’s a way for us to state: “I believe in what you’re doing;” “I agree with what you say;” “I want you to keep going.” These are the blessings that I have received from you, my precious readers and commenters.

I could have never anticipated what God had in store for this blog. It was and is a daily step of obedience to open my life and share with you all. This is vulnerability and humility like I’ve never known. It’s so easy to put our confident and sometimes, even prideful faces on for the world. It’s another thing to strip it away and share those hidden insecurities and inadequacies, those most heartfelt thoughts, deepest prayers and magnificent visions.

The words posted and messaged to me since Heather’s Blessed JouRNey, got up and running six months ago are treasures. Like the one from Michelle, who went to school with my brother Jon. She commented on 25 Years Later.

I still remember seeing the smoke from my house that day… I think of Jon often and remember what a special friend he was to me. Even though I was only 8 I remember that he would never let anyone go without a treat on bake sale day. I remember asking him if he was really sure if he had enough money to be buying everyone treats. He just smiled and said, “of course I I do.” He lifted everyone around him up. If I was having trouble with school work or just having a bad day he would give me that smile of his and make my day brighter. You are so much like him: warm, kind, and gentle. Jon was so willing to love people just like you!! Love, Michelle

Or the one recently, from Kim, a friend from high school.

Heather, I'm sure you get this from everyone that follows your blog...but I have to tell you how much I love reading them! You never fail to either give me chills or make me cry. You touch my heart every time. I want to tell you what an amazing woman you are and how you are such an inspiration. You have gone through so much in your life, and still you appear to be one of the happiest people I know. You have such a heart of gold. On the other hand, I must tell you what a freak of nature you are! I'm putting you up there in the rare category with Erika Cheatham...you two are the only two that just keep getting prettier the older you get! How do you do that?! It's not fair! Lol! ;) Anyway, it was weighing on my heart to let you know what a beautiful person you are inside and out. You can't say that about many people but I feel you are a genuine woman. I'm honored to call you my friend. And those lil nicu babies are lucky they have you to care for them :) xoxo

I share these to show that when we follow God’s will, even if we’re concerned that people will think we’re crazy, even if we’re inhibited to share those things we keep hidden; that our blessing will be far greater than our sacrifice.

How could I not return to give my very simple offerings?

John 15:5 (NIV) says, “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing.

I am absolutely nothing without Jesus. My efforts writing here are in vain without Him. My work as a nurse is futile without His anointing. My role as a mother is ineffective without His guidance. My commitment to my husband is empty without His love. He is everything and He makes something of anything I give to Him, as evidence by your gracious support of my humble contributions.

Thank you! Thank you, for reading so faithfully. Thank you, for sharing with your family and your friends. Thank you, for taking a moment to post those invaluable comments. Thank you, for giving back to my life, more than what I’m sure I could have ever given to yours.

Bless you, readers!

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